Long live together as couples do not guarantee the increasingly intimate relationship. In some cases, actually there is someone who always avoids intimate moments with her partner.
According to Douglas Weiss, a psychologist from the United States the condition was "anorexic intimacy". He defined it as a form of withdrawal from a painful couple and destroyed millions of marriages. Namely by avoiding emotional intimacy, spiritual and sexual violence against the couple.
"When I was dating, they are very clever show emotion and affection. But when married, everything is reduced and even disappear, good attention, sexual desire and feelings of love," said Weiss, as quoted by the Daily Mail.
You feel anorexia intimacy, or perhaps a spouse? Try to recognize the signs, if you have five or more, chances are your relationship problems.
1. Always busy
The first characteristic of anorexia intimacy is, someone is always busy and just have a little time to be with her partner. Could be because of busy work, housework, taking care of children or deliberately drowned herself in the bustle. There is no desire to set aside a little time with your partner.
2. Blame
When problems arise in relation to a person who has anorexia tend to blame their partner intimacy. This is done to avoid the look is not perfect.
3. Avoiding expressions of love
"Someone with anorexia intimacy know if their partner wants to be loved. But he did not make it a priority and tend to always put it aside," said Dr.. Weiss.
4. Rare praise
"Each person has positive qualities. But the desire to avoid intimacy with someone less likely to praise their partner even though he argued, it is remarkable," said Dr.. Weiss.
But when other people do things which he said great, he can immediately praised even repeatedly.
5. Avoiding sex
It is most common among couples who have problems with intimacy, avoiding sex. "I've been dealing with couples who do not have sex for 20 years, while they slept in the same bed," said Dr.. Weiss.
6. Do not want to show emotion
This means that a person has trouble showing his feelings. Including declined to discuss expectations and thoughts of a relationship.
7. Relentless criticism
He also always wanted to put her partner in a state of no confidence. So, always reveals weaknesses partner.
"A person with anorexia intimacy more quickly create a list of weaknesses than strengths partner," said Dr.. Weiss.
8. Keeping distance
Anger, sadness or disappointment in couples in which the normal relationship will be demonstrated through attitude. However, people avoiding intimacy, it will not say anything. He could not even talk with his partner for more than a week.
9. Money as a weapon
A person with anorexia tend to not care about the intimacy of financial freedom or just give money to a partner. "Their attitude like, I have to buy you everything, so do not complain about the lack of intimacy, love or sex," says Dr. Weiss.
10. Important questions
There are important questions you must answer, namely "Are you for this feeling stay with a friend rather than your partner?. According to Drs. Weiss, each long-term relationship must have experienced loss of romance. But most normal couples, experiencing this condition while it is felt very stressful. For the anorexic keintimaan, this always happens and becomes a constant pattern of relationship.
According to Douglas Weiss, a psychologist from the United States the condition was "anorexic intimacy". He defined it as a form of withdrawal from a painful couple and destroyed millions of marriages. Namely by avoiding emotional intimacy, spiritual and sexual violence against the couple.
"When I was dating, they are very clever show emotion and affection. But when married, everything is reduced and even disappear, good attention, sexual desire and feelings of love," said Weiss, as quoted by the Daily Mail.
You feel anorexia intimacy, or perhaps a spouse? Try to recognize the signs, if you have five or more, chances are your relationship problems.
1. Always busy
The first characteristic of anorexia intimacy is, someone is always busy and just have a little time to be with her partner. Could be because of busy work, housework, taking care of children or deliberately drowned herself in the bustle. There is no desire to set aside a little time with your partner.
2. Blame
When problems arise in relation to a person who has anorexia tend to blame their partner intimacy. This is done to avoid the look is not perfect.
3. Avoiding expressions of love
"Someone with anorexia intimacy know if their partner wants to be loved. But he did not make it a priority and tend to always put it aside," said Dr.. Weiss.
4. Rare praise
"Each person has positive qualities. But the desire to avoid intimacy with someone less likely to praise their partner even though he argued, it is remarkable," said Dr.. Weiss.
But when other people do things which he said great, he can immediately praised even repeatedly.
5. Avoiding sex
It is most common among couples who have problems with intimacy, avoiding sex. "I've been dealing with couples who do not have sex for 20 years, while they slept in the same bed," said Dr.. Weiss.
6. Do not want to show emotion
This means that a person has trouble showing his feelings. Including declined to discuss expectations and thoughts of a relationship.
7. Relentless criticism
He also always wanted to put her partner in a state of no confidence. So, always reveals weaknesses partner.
"A person with anorexia intimacy more quickly create a list of weaknesses than strengths partner," said Dr.. Weiss.
8. Keeping distance
Anger, sadness or disappointment in couples in which the normal relationship will be demonstrated through attitude. However, people avoiding intimacy, it will not say anything. He could not even talk with his partner for more than a week.
9. Money as a weapon
A person with anorexia tend to not care about the intimacy of financial freedom or just give money to a partner. "Their attitude like, I have to buy you everything, so do not complain about the lack of intimacy, love or sex," says Dr. Weiss.
10. Important questions
There are important questions you must answer, namely "Are you for this feeling stay with a friend rather than your partner?. According to Drs. Weiss, each long-term relationship must have experienced loss of romance. But most normal couples, experiencing this condition while it is felt very stressful. For the anorexic keintimaan, this always happens and becomes a constant pattern of relationship.
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